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Sex Magick,

Sex & Relationship Coaching

I Help Witches Find Healing in Their Shadow Work so They may Reclaim Their Sexual Power.

The Sexually Empowered Witch, Wilding, and Friend.

In this sacred 1:1 Personal Coaching container, you and I will work together on facilitating transformative work in your personal & professional life, regardless of how you choose to identify yourself as a witch, a wildling, or a friend. My work calls to you because you understand from an intuitive place deep within your body that your creatrix energy is currently blocked. 

Let us explore a couple of examples of how your energy may be blocked:
  • At the end of the day, your mind, body, and soul Are exhausted and overwhelmed. You are so physically drained and tired you have nothing left for anyone, especially yourself.

  • You have a Low Libido, Lack of physical, emotional, and sexual intimacy with yourself and your partner.

  • You may identify as an empath, or maybe this is your first time hearing this term.

  • When you walk into a room full of people, you find the person in pain or "feel" needs help.

  • Everyone around you knows you are the pillar of strength, and they never really reach out to check on you because you are so strong.

  • You are an ultra-independent person, and It's easier for you to do it rather than asking for help and risk disappointment in the help you may not even receive.

  • When you do have moments of sexual intimacy, it's challenging to connect your body. You are in your head so much, your body feels numb, and you must overwork to reach orgasm.

How many of these critical points hit home for you?

I understand this life well. As a motherless daughter and exploring my path into sex education, energy work, spirituality, sex magick, genital armoring, shadow work, and body trauma, I get it!

The road to healing is not an easy one; it is vital to your continued growth during your time here on this earth.


Now let us explore how our time together will look and feel.


Our first step is to remove the mask you wear for society to feel accepted, loved, and approval. We begin this work by diving deeply into the Shadow work, or the Shadow Self, to uncover the roots of your inner child trauma that makes you crave the love, approval, and support you may not have received as a child.

After exploring self-awareness around your shadows, and the body trauma that your cellular memory is holding onto, we then work on healthy rituals and healing modalities to help you gain confidence in yourself again.

You will be able to identify toxic relationships, learning how to set healthy boundaries, and stopping overextending your energy to the point of physical exhaustion.

Learn how to breathe again and feel present in your physical body. After this beautiful layer, we will then work towards more physical aspects and explore the sexual energy and sexual magick. Learning how to breathe and be present in your body understands who you are and want you to want in this world.

I believe that it is my work to hold a safe space for you to find healing. As you regain your strength in body, mind, and soul, I will guide and care for you. Our work is complete when you no longer need my guidance, and I look forward to the days we stand together as friends.


Sex & Relationship Coaching

Previous Client’s Will Share This About Me

When clients come to me, they know that I am a soundboard. In my work, I hold a safe space to explore the most challenging conversations for the deepest levels of emotional, sexual, and spiritual trauma. My energy is always the same; I live, breathe, and embodied the mantra, " If your brave enough to ask a direct question, then I must be brave enough to give an honest answer."  I may not always tell you what you want to hear. However, it will be everything you need to hear at the moment.


I do not believe or follow the "Love & Light" Pathway that separates my work from most others in the personal development categories. It means you will learn how to connect with your shadow self profoundly and darkly. You must meet your Shadows and spend time with them. You are honoring self-awareness, acknowledgment, process, and a newfound radical sense of self-love and care. Your Shadows and Your light have spent this journey with you to shape you into the person you've become here with me now reading this.


It will take a mixture of your shadows and light to heal the innermost essence so you may step into your life's purpose and find sexual bliss again.

Previous clients will rave about a couple of things about my work.

  • Confidentially, Integrity and Consent are Sexy & Required!

  • I have a warm, loving no-nonsense personality.

  • I promise to always tell you what you need to hear, even in moments when it may not be what you what to attend. However, it will be everything you need to hear in alignment with what's coming up for you.

What Makes Me Qualified to Help You?

I am a Sexual Empowerment Witch, Certified as a Sexual Health Coach, Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner, Womb Priestess, and EFT & TFT (Emotional Freedom Technique & Thought Field Therapy) Practitioner.

I have spent over a decade building a strong career in Sexual Health, Body Confidence for Women, and Relationship Coaching for Couples. Over the last few years, my work has shifted to an intentional focus on Energy Work, Sex Magick, Body & Breathwork, and Sexual Pleasure. I then realized it was time to start incorporating healthy ritual work on self-care practices using an eclectic variety of holistic healing modalities. This has led to my more in-depth dive into integrating spirituality into my work's more massive body.


As a solitary practitioner of witchcraft for over 30 years, It just feels aligned to share this side of myself in my workspace.

Here is a list of places where my work has been featured:

What I Specialize In

Sex & Relationship


Spiritual Development  - The Sanctuary 

Tarot & Oracle

Psychic / Trance Mediumship


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