How To Choose the Right Vibrator for You

How to Choose the Right Vibrator for You

How do you know Which Vibrator is Right for You? This Blog will break down Choosing  This is hands down the single most asked question Ias an Adult Toy Educator. The answer can be broken down into 4 Parts:

  • Type of Desired Stimulation
  • Solo Play V.S Partner Play
  • Materials in the Products
  • Budget Friendly

Let’s look over a few types of stimulation. Stimulation can arise from any of the senses. The delicate visual foreplay of a dimly candle-lit room, to the sounds of silky sheets being drawn back. Perhaps it’s your partner’s scent as your warm bodies draw closer, or the soft caress of the last touch long after sex is over. We have a very wide range of sexual stimulation based off just our 5 senses alone.

With so many delicious ways to stimulate the body, we must first decide what the desired effect is.  Which part of the body are you most interested stimulating? Is this new toy going to be used for solo play or to play with a partner? Regarding sex toys for a woman: Is this toy going to serve a Clitoral Stimulation, Vaginal Stimulation or Anal Stimulation?

Did you know roughly 85 % of women are unable to climax from sexual intercourse alone? Us women need time to allow our bodies to warm up. We need to let our bodies and our minds build excitement from within, allowing the natural juices time to follow. (It’s like riding a bicycle; sometimes we do need a little nudge.)

To get my clients thinking about these things, I have a few questions I like to ask them when we first sit down.

  1. When you masturbate, what really gets your juices flowing most?
  2. Is it a penetrating or pressure sensation on your clitoris, or is it more of a pulling sucking sensation?
  3. For vaginal play is it the deeper thrusting feeling? Or is it the circular massaging sensation?
  4. Regarding anal stimulation: is it small massaging around the exterior or small, medium or larger penetration?

Deciding which of these you enjoy most will really help you to start eliminating the many choices available in today’s market. Once you’ve eliminated that you don’t like, you can continue exploring what you do. There is a wide array of options for every answer to every question I’ve asked. There are high end model, as well as budget friendly options that most certainly still get the job done.

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